What is emotional cheating?
meeworld1.blogspot.com |
Before I ever even asked myself, "What is emotional cheating?"
I was a victim of it. I once had a partner who had an emotional affair.
At the time, my partner was 21 years old, and I was still about six
months from my 21st birthday, so they started going to a local bar
without me. I trusted them, so I didn't sweat it until they started
coming home later and later after the bar had closed. It turned out they
had developed a friendship with the bartender, and they were staying
and chatting for hours after the bar closed, and developed a close,
intimate friendship that they lied about and tried to hide from me for
months. (It eventually made its way back to me through mutual friends.)
My partner always swore that nothing sexual happened, but I was still
totally devastated. I felt betrayed and lonely and lost. I knew that a
line had been crossed, I didn't have the language to describe what had
happened, but I knew it was some kind of cheating.
My
story is all too common, in part because what constitutes emotional
cheating can be so unclear, and people cross that line without realizing
it exists, only to face the consequences on the other side. So, what is
the actual definition of emotional cheating?
0 comments